In Loving Memorium - Judy Gleason

At about 1:00 am, Central Time, Judy Gleason surrendered the fight, and went home.

For several years now, Judy fought with cancer, winning a battle here, losing ground there. She always pulled through. This time, the cancer hurt her too much, affected too many pieces of her, and she didn't win the war.

Throughout her years with cancers, and the blessed years in between, Judy welcomed all she met with an open and loving heart. Never with a harsh word, always with a smile and a hug, Judy accepted those of us who met her in her home. Many of us who went to school with Marty visited for holidays, when we couldn't go home. She was my second mom, my mother-in-love. Judy and Pat were always glad to see me, and would scold me gently (very gently!) when I fell out of touch.

15 months ago, Judy lost her soulmate and husband, when Pat died. Even in the face of her cancer being active again, and losing Pat, still she was gentle and loving. Her stength the weekend of Pat's funeral will always serve as an inspiration. My time with her that weekend, helping her, being there for her, was, by turns, one of the hardest and most rewarding times of my life. I was able to return some of her love and support.

Judy used to call me her angel. Now she's become mine. I know she's with Pat, and I know she's no longer in pain, and for this, I rejoice, and am deeply grateful. I also miss her a great deal already. I feel incredibly blessed and honored to have been a part of her life, to have known such an amazingly caring woman.

Marty and Tony, my heart bleeds for you, as I share your sorrow. Please know you'll only have to ask, and I'll do anything I can.

Je t'aime, Judy. Adieu, go with God.